Many people who suffer from depression also struggle with intense feelings of shame. This week, we are talking with Dr. Jane Rubin about psychotherapy for depression and what patients need to know about depression and shame when seeking out treatment.
What Do You Think People Need to Know about Depression and Shame?
I think it’s really important for people to recognize how often shame accompanies depression. Many people feel ashamed of being depressed. They think that being depressed means that there’s something wrong with them. In addition, shame can…Read More
This month we are talking with Dr. Jane Rubin about the connection between anxiety and shame. Dr. Rubin talks about how you can reduce your anxiety by understanding how shame contributes to it.
What Kinds of Shame Do You See in Clients?
First of all, I think it’s important to understand the difference between shame and guilt. We experience guilt when we feel bad about something we have or haven’t done. The guilt is about the action.
We experience shame Read More
People often have a sense of failure when they make important life decisions that don’t work out as they hoped they would. But blaming yourself often prevents you from recognizing the real obstacles that get in the way of good decision-making and taking appropriate steps to overcome them.
Have you been seeing this trend in your practice?
I wouldn’t call it a trend. I think there are always a fair number of people who are struggling with this issue. But the way they struggle with it varies…Read More
What is Dissociation?
Technically, dissociation means detachment from physical or emotional reality. Many people are aware of more extreme kinds of dissociation like depersonalization, derealization, or dissociative identity disorder (“multiple personality disorder”). However, a much more common form involves detachment from one’s feelings. I think most of us dissociate to one degree or another at times. Yet, people who have experienced trauma often protect themselves from painful feelings by dissociating…Read More
Social anxiety is more than just feeling nervous around other people. It’s a problem that often originates in early experiences of shame. That’s why we are talking today with Dr. Jane Rubin about social anxiety and what people can do about it.
How Does Shame Connect With Social Anxiety?
People with social anxiety don’t just feel bad about something they’ve done, such as making an awkward remark in a social situation. They believe something is wrong with them, at the core of their being. They also believe that other…Read More